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Everyone has that friend, the one who dates guys that leave the rest of you scratching your he. There are a million reasons why you and almost every other woman in the world sometimes fall for a loser. He may not have much going for him, but he sure is a good time. Well, obviously, because you are. Still, it feels good when a guy is constantly singing your praises. No girl hates receiving constant compliments. Of course he respects your ambition and applauds your success — he desperately needs a sugar mama! It makes you feel good about yourself.
It constantly forces you to reexamine your choices and your place in life. Are you content and satisfied with everything, or do you need to push yourself to do better? You can simply feel good about yourself in comparison to him.
You have low self-esteem. No one is attracted to low self-worth. You have a savior complex. He needs a mommy. There you are, ready and waiting to turn him into an improved specimen. You can bend over backwards trying to rescue this guy, but the only person who can save him is… him. You create imaginary potential in him.
Instead of accepting the guy the way he is, you see what he could someday be. Dating someone based on what you hope and wish he will become does not work! Be realistic.
Find the man you want for who he is right now. You like feeling needed. Your deluded, insecure perception of what a relationship should be is the problem. Figure it out so you can break the co-dependency pattern. No one else wants your man. He has nothing going for him. You can control the situation. When you have the money, the good job, the car, the ambition — well, you hold the reins.
When you do ask him for something, he better damn well give it to you. You feel powerful. Check out Relationship Hero a site where highly trained relationship coaches get you, get your situation, and help you accomplish what you want. Just …. Amy Horton A former actress who has always loved the art of the written word, Amy is excited to be here sharing her stories! She hopes that they resonate with you or at the very least make you chuckle a bit.
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How to Stop Attracting Losers into Your Life