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But how does it feel to be a virgin in your 30s and 40s?

Virgin wanna help

I only recently fell in love properly for the first time. He seems to accept me exactly as I am. I feel like we are soulmates. Anonymous woman, I am still a virgin because of my crippling social anxiety, possibly due to my large facial growths.

Virgin wanna help

Occasionally though, I do wonder what I am missing out on. It seems that sex is something our society is obsessed about, even though in reality I believe everyone can live without. Anonymous man, The reason I am still a virgin is that I am very well endowed. The ladies in my life have found it really hard to relax when it comes to having sex with me due to expecting intercourse to hurt them. I have been intimate in other ways, however, and even been in three long-term relationships.

Being a virgin later in life feels the same as being a virgin as a teenager. The only difference is, rather than worrying about being the odd one out, there are more things going on in the world to be hung up over. Especially now kids are being born in our circle of friends.

I am 41 and gay and have always lived in a small town with very limited access to any kind of gay community. Although I have been to a few gay clubs I have never met anyone there. It just feels like a whole section of my life I am missing out on. What worries me most about sex is that I have no experience, I have never had to show my body to anyone and although I am in no way ugly I have never had to worry about things like bikini waxes, or staying slim for a partner.

But when I do finally meet someone, will my naked body be OK for my partner? Also the actual act of having sex scares me — what do I do? I was a virgin until 42, and there were several reasons: I was introverted, bookish, and strong-willed. I have always been a good Catholic, so simply decided a career in science and many rich friendships were preferable to marriage etc. I Virgin wanna help a happy and fulfilled life and career, and did much volunteer work which was Virgin wanna help fulfilling.

Virgin wanna help

Quite unexpectedly, at 42, I met a Catholic widower aged It was love at first sight and we have just celebrated our silver wedding anniversary. My first time after all those years was odd; it was as if my reality shifted about half an inch in an unexpected direction. It took me a couple of days to adjust to the fact of it. My status as a person had changed: I no longer lived for Virgin wanna help alone. I had admitted another, whom I completely trusted, into myself, to share my being.

That is cosmic and it was worth waiting for. But I also worry about sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. Most of my friends and family have been very accepting, although some have found it difficult to empathise. I am paralysed from the waist down, as a result of a congenital spinal condition. I am also taking medication for high blood pressure, which has robbed me of the ability to get and sustain an erection.

Because I am disabled, I have always found it difficult to get into relationships. What does it feel like to be a virgin later in life?

Virgin wanna help

There is still a great stigma around it. People take it as read that you are choosing to abstain from sex — often for religious reasons. Neither is true in my case. What woman of my age would want a man who has had no sexual relationships or experiences? Share your views in the comments. To recommend another area for our readers to talk candidly about please sarah. How it feels Sex. This article is more than 5 years old. Sarah Marsh. Photograph: Alamy. Fri 4 Mar How to say Yes!. Death on the road, porn on the phone: a perfect tableau of modern loneliness Andrew Brown.

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How it feels to be a virgin in your 30s and 40s: our readers share their stories