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Imagine having someone to turn to for all your life's issues, and they keep it all top-secret. Now, imagine still not sharing things that are troubling you with this person, paying a therapist tonnes of money eventually to resolve your repressed emotional shit. Doesn't make any sense right? Well, that's exactly what the purpose of a true best friend is.
So, like it or not, you girlfriend talks to her best friend about you and your relationship. Of course, there are boundaries to be respected and maintained--and she will honour it depending on the relationship you have with her and the one she has with her best friend.
But, chances are, that she knows certain things about you that you won't be too comfortable sharing, and here are just a few examples:. We aren't even talking about anything as drastic as physical, mental, or verbal abuse. Neither are we referring to cheating--emotionally or physically. These are points of no return, which yes--your girlfriend's best friend will definitely be told about and will spell the end of your relationship.
That said, there are several minor instances where you might have said or done something horrible to her, and somehow managed to get her to forgive you. But, her best friend is going to keep a mental or actual note of all of these as red flags, so watch out mister.
It's perfectly okay if you don't want to do certain things in the sack. Consent is a two-way street, after all. But, it will probably be discussed between your girlfriend and her best friend. Mostly she will do it to vent, but she might also do it to get some assurances about being freakier than you.
Because it's okay to be freaky as well. It won't be done to betray your confidence, trust us. And if you tell her explicitly to not tell her best friend about it, she will respect your wishes too--unless you guys have an ugly breakup.
But, in all probability she will discuss it to know if it's an okay thing to enjoy and ask from one's girlfriend. You see, your GF's best friend can see through your smooth-talking, slick moves, and won't be too happy about her bestie giving in so easily instead of standing her ground. But, as long as you don't do it to be a manipulative dickhead--she will not hold it against you. There is a reason why talking about exes is always tricky business. There is a reason why things ended, and there will always be lingering feelings and thoughts that have no place in your current relationship.
So, think before trashing your ex or praising her a bit too much--or just reminiscing about her with your girlfriend.
Well, curiosity gets the most of us no matter how much we try not to get entangled in these things. So, if she ended up stalking your ex and her current SO one idle afternoon, she will have to tell someone about her observations, right?
Of course, she won't tell you, she will discuss it with her best friend. Okay, contrary to popular belief, girls do not generally discuss such personal stuff with their friends. Somethings are sacred in relationships, we all know that. But, chances are, if things weren't that serious in the beginning, she would've indulged in discussing some of these things with her best friend.
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16 Things Your Girlfriend’s Best Friend Wants You To Know